Putting aside your argument with Kaveh for a moment: your stance is that I am unkind because I have decided not to divulge to you a matter that is both personal and private between Kaveh and I. In that, you consider personal worth to be equal with entitlement to other's affairs, since that's the only thing you've asked of me so far.
My stance is that I am trying to TALK TO YOU because I thought maybe there was the chance that we could be friends but the only thing I know to talk to you about is Kaveh but you don't want to talk about him and you also don't seem to want to talk about anything else either.
So I can only conclude that you don't want to talk to me at all, and just want my books.
We just has a discussion about the properties of stew in tandem. Or is that not divested enough from Kaveh that you think there's nothing else to me? I obviously don't want to talk to someone I don't know well about this matter.
Did you come to me looking for friendship because Kaveh directed you to me?
To be clear: I'm uninterested in any "game" with you because at the moment all I've gotten from you in this conversation is you having a fit because you feel that your desires for friendship are worth more than my privacy.
That Kaveh didn't tell you anything more despite his chronic oversharing was a sign to you that this is a sensitive matter. If you're looking for some friends, perhaps don't start off with needling people about their other relationships in your second conversation.
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Is that correct?
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So I can only conclude that you don't want to talk to me at all, and just want my books.
Is THAT correct?
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Did you come to me looking for friendship because Kaveh directed you to me?
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Here's an idea. How about we play a game and the next person to mention his name or bring him up in any capacity loses.
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To be clear: I'm uninterested in any "game" with you because at the moment all I've gotten from you in this conversation is you having a fit because you feel that your desires for friendship are worth more than my privacy.
That Kaveh didn't tell you anything more despite his chronic oversharing was a sign to you that this is a sensitive matter. If you're looking for some friends, perhaps don't start off with needling people about their other relationships in your second conversation.
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